Several things should be considered when choosing gifts for nursing home residents. How much room does the resident have? Do they have room for the gift you have in mind? Are they physically able to use the gift? Will they need help to use the gift and, if so, is the help readily available?
Popular gifts that have stood the test of time for nursing home residents are books and magazines.. A new book by a favorite author is always welcome. A subscription to a favorite magazine is also a good idea.
A box of candy is another popular choice but before giving candy, check with the caregivers to see if this is something the resident can have or can be doled out occasionally.
If the resident enjoys writing letters and cards, a box of all-occasion cards or notepaper would be welcome. Add some postage stamps and pre-printed labels for the people they write to and they can write cards and letters whenever they want to.
Coloring books and crayons are fun for both residents and visitors. If the resident has difficulty conversing, just sitting and coloring with them, occasionally patting their hand or making comments about coloring is a relaxing way to spend time together and is appreciated by the resident.
A lap-desk with a raised border around it is useful for writing and coloring.
If the resident is able to go out, the promise of a trip to a favorite restaurant or movie would be appreciated but check with the nursing staff to make sure they are physically and mentally able to handle such a venture. Ask about any medications or treatments that might need to be taken into consideration.
Does the resident like to treat others? Give them some gift certificates they can use to treat their friends when they go out.
Do they need help with a hobby they used to enjoy? Can you provide that help? Arthritis and other diseases often interfere with hobbies such as needlework, stamp collecting, building models. If they have given up a favorite hobby because of failing eyesight or poor hand movement, perhaps you can help them still enjoy their former pastime.
Perhaps the best gift of all is simply spending time with the resident. Don't feel you have to be talking all the time. Just sitting with them lets them know that you care. Offer to read a book to them or help them with a crossword puzzle. Let them know what's happening in the place they used to live. Be cheerful and positive and watch carefully for signs that they are getting tired. Do check with their caregiver as they can offer suggestions on what the resident would enjoy.
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